I don't really know what to say sometimes. I try to put myself in the shoes of others and practice my EQ but in some cases, it's not entirely up to you but the response of the other party. Being accommodating is hard, being generous is equally as hard. It's not like you haven't travelled overseas within the past two years. You have been to Hong Kong last year, without us. Then you went for your Japan school trip for a total of 38 days to places like Tokyo, Osaka and Kyoto. And now this year, you're at Hong Kong again, and you didn't bother to wait for us. That, I can still understand since you're visiting relatives. But you're going to Taiwan with your friend for like 10 days after your HK trip. And look, Mummy didn't even get a chance to go overseas within these 2 years while you've been out enjoying yourself 4 times. Is this counted as fair? Don't you think you're even a tiny bit selfish? You want us to wait for you and you're unhappy with this. I understand because a family isn't a whole without one of us. But why can't you put yourself in our shoes? We didn't say much when you travelled yourself. But you're having double expectations and you expect us to wait for you for another year before we can all go travelling together. Just admit it.

death

i often have this thought that resurfaces in my mind about my parents. i've this fear that my parents might one day pass away, and i'm so used to them being around, i sometimes forget how to be grateful for them. i can't deny that my mum and my dad are two of the most important people in this world, and everything that i do, i owe it all to them. i know that their love for me is so real, it's what keeps me going. i really do wish that there's no such thing as death, or at least they can live as long as i live because i can't imagine living a day without their presence. i love you mummy and daddy, and that will never change.